So it’s been a REALLY full day and sad it say, it isn’t over. Richard has a really weird work schedule this week between special projects and training he is taking. Today he has to work 5pm-2am. So right now he’s about 2/3rds of the way through his shift. I always worry about him when it’s really late as he has an hour drive home from Columbus. Today started out though with dropping the dog off at the groomers. We had never taken Jax to a groomer before and didn’t know what to expect. I usually groom Jax myself, but with the infection he has in his paws he won’t let me touch them and it was getting to be more of a struggle than I could handle. So our vet suggested a groomer for us to take him to so he could have his nails cut and his hair trimmed.
However, since I had never taken him to the groomer before I made the fatal mistake of forgetting to tell them that we are actually trying to grow Jax’s hair long and when we picked him up later they had basically shaved him completely except for some of the hair on his ears. I know that a lot of people do this with their dogs, but I absolutely HATE it. I shaved him once last summer since I thought he would be really hot all summer with the long hair but I really didn’t like the way he looked. I have always been fond of long haired dogs. There’s nothing wrong with a short haired dog if that’s what you like, but I just don’t like it. I especially don’t like the shaved look, especially on Cocker Spaniels. They have beautiful coats that reach all the way to the floor when allowed to grow properly.
It had taken me 8 months or so to get his hair grown out as far as it was after I shaved him last summer. So now it looks like I lost about a years worth of growth and I am back at square one. Also Jax will be freezing for the rest of the winter, and trust me in Ohio winter can linger through the end of March or beginning of April. I’ll admit that I should have been more specific with the groomer (I was busy giving the receptionist other instructions about being wary of his paws and such and forgot the most important thing), but I am also a little irritated that it was just assumed that I would want my dog, who had a good 6-8 inches of hair hanging down from his back, to be shaved. So now he looks like a rat and I’m really not happy. Actually some rats may have longer hair than he does at this point. The whole thing was very frustrating and emotional. Yes, I said emotional. Jax is like our child since we don’t have any children yet and it’s as if someone took your child and shaved their head.
So anyway, in between when we dropped off Jax and picked him up, we went to vote. Of course, as this was a special election, we got in and out very quickly. We did notice a new sign since last November concerning voting at our precinct. It seems that someone must have complained in November as now there are signs on the door that said “Absolutely no political signs or discussions beyond this point”. I figure it was someone who voted for Kerry most likely that complained and I’ll tell you a little story why I think that. Last November while EVERYONE in the Kerry camp in Ohio were complaining about the long voting lines in poor and urban districts, no one said anything about the long lines in districts like ours. That’s right, predominantly middle class, republican precincts had long lines too!
We got to the polls about 10:45am on November 2nd only to find that we had a THREE HOUR wait in front of us to vote. That’s right, THREE HOURS STANDING IN LINE TO VOTE! Richard and I of course had already planned on the high turnout and had Richard take the day off from work so we could have plenty of time to go vote together and then watch the returns in the evening. So let me ask you, you have three hours with the same people all around you and nothing to do, what happens? PEOPLE START TALKING! Yep that’s right, no big surprise there, especially since a lot of these people live in your neighborhood and have many things in common. And what are many people going to talk about since their in line to VOTE? POLITICS OF COURSE!
So a lot of people (Richard and I included) were talking to people next to us in line. The people in front of us already new one another from a local church and it wasn’t long before Richard and I were drawn into the conversation and were talking about churches, religion, Fairfield County Right to Life, politics, values, etc. We kept it to acceptable voice levels although I will admit there was one man in this line that was not so considerate to others and you could sometimes here his voice above the rest. Now back to why I think it was a Kerry voter(s) that complained and got the ‘no political talk, etc’ sign put on the door. Remember when I previously said that my precinct (my whole county in fact) is predominantly Republican? Well much of the talk was very pro-bush and on top of that, we were voting on State Issue 1, a proposed protect marriage amendment to the Ohio constitution (it passed, if you’re wondering). Our area is very conservative, so I highly doubt it was one of the conservatives in that building that complained.
Now to the reason I brought all this up; I understand the laws about the signs (although I would like that more defined) but the political talk thing I have a curiosity and concern about. Aren’t we supposed to have free speech in this country? I mean I am not talking about people campaigning for candidates, but when hundreds of people are stuck in a line for THREE HOURS and are standing next to people with similar interests politically and socially they aren’t allowed to have a discrete conversation? Also, what are we going to define as political? Almost everything in our culture could be defined as political by someone. To an atheist, religion can be political. If someone were talking about a christian school their children went to, that would be considered political by those who don’t like voucher programs. Even the mere fact that my husband has a leather jacket could be political to someone who is against wearing animal skins. And back to the sign issue, I understand actual campaign SIGNS, but would my Bush 2004 gold pin I wear on my lapel be considered a sign? Could someone who has a hat for one of the candidates be considered a sign? Could someone have an NRA shirt on and be told to go home and change before they can vote because it could be considered a sign? Simply put, the definitions are too ambiguous.
Also what kind of message does this send? Are we all so weak in our beliefs that we can’t stand to hear someone talk to someone else about an opposing view point? Do we have no restraint and will react in a negative way to someone wearing a shirt or a hat for the opposing candidate? This whole thing is quite interesting to me as the very people who say we should have tolerance for other people’s beliefs are the very people who want to shove political correctness down everyone else’s throat.
So which is it, because saying we should tolerate other’s beliefs and then wanting people to shut up and keep their opinions to themselves is like saying you love winter but hate cold and snow; the two statements just don’t mix.